A few weeks ago i was with a friend in barnes and nobles, and i picked up this book. (actually some of the stuff made sense, but its not bitches we are after, its strong woman) For the past hour, i have been reading blogs about how girls are fed up about being "nice"and they will become bitches, so guys will like them....how guys take advantage of girls who are too nice.
For the record... I have never Dated/Liked a BITCH EVER~!! and i don't start planning to....Theres too many of them as it is in the world....They whine to dam much. Most of them are bad tempered....Deceitful....Always looking to bring you down......They assume if you do something nice, that you want to have their babies. There just too negative...I guess their not happy in their own skin, so they have to bring other people down. I totally understand....I guess being in a cynical world. You have to build that "bitch wall" up.....
So Basically Girls should be bitches? and Guys should be assholes right? WRONG~ We need to Stop the cycle of hate....
What kind of world are we living in? Where we teach our woman to become bitches?
This is what i look for in a woman i meet.... A strong woman.....A woman who has her own individually. A woman with a mind of her own...Passion of her own....Someone who is comfortable in her own skin.....someone who is secure enough to laugh at herself.....most woman are too stuck up that its hard to find one that does....i am sure they are as perfect as they claim to be...She doesn't get sucked into all that b.s.... She's the type of woman who wants to find out on her own, instead of believe what other people has to say. She also has to be genuine, and can be honest with herself when she is wrong. She is caring, and selfless......Enjoys the big and small things about life. (any idiot can show off and take you to some 400 dollar restaurant and make it fun... but if we can enjoy a pizza at a park....thats magic......)
My friend J told me a story the other day, and it kinda had a great message. He picked up his gf, and they were late for something. They got into a accident. He was expecting the worst......And instead of the girl "bitching" at him for getting into the accident.... She was like..."theres a pizza store over there, i will buy you a slice" after he ate the slice, she kept asking him if he wanted another one. And she didn't bring up the accident at all.....
I was in totally awe when i heard that story. I was envious. I am usually not jealous of my friends and their gfs. But i totally was when i heard that...
To those "nice girls" out there. My heart goes out to you all.... keep yo head up~!! I know you gals are fed up with being hurt all the time...but I am sure your find someone who will love you for the "nice" girl you truly are. Its easier to be a bitch. anyone can be one. but it takes a stronger woman not to be one...I respect that....
On behave of all the assholes who hurt you, i am deeply sorry... You girls are truly God's gift to the world....
@FreeeVerse@xanga - me too! I would be very sad/upset if someone called me a bitch.
i am going to go get this book
Ninja attack!
I think all men and women the ability to be an asshole or a bitch. Just some people are more than others and some people have the ability to supress that part of them compared to others.
Well, I hope one of these days all the nice people get together and have a bunch of nice kids and repopulate the world.
Unfortunately I will probably be long dead before that will ever happen.
Hope all is well, take care.
i love the last statement :) thanks for sharing!
I think people just forget how to be normal human beings.
sucks that after people get hurt, they kinda turn on the next relationship they're in. they're has to be some sort of constructive healing rather than waht seems to be roughly patched up battle scarred temporary fixes. sometimes i wish i could open up therapy sessions for girls. not that i think that i have all the answers, but to have a support that atleast attempts to get people out of that "cycle of hate." in fact, i think guys get hurt just as often as girls, and often times they hurt other girls because they've been hurt before too. iono, in my opinion, there just needs to be more genuine love and acceptance and constructive healing, or it's just nasty cyclical misery.
I just dropped by the bookstore earlier and saw this. Thought it would be a good read. Your entry is better though hehe. Thanks for the compliment for us girls! :)
*Sigh* I haven't visited you for quite a long time. Been busy! Anyway, hope you're well. :)
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@FreeeVerse@xanga - me too! I would be very sad/upset if someone called me a bitch.
i am going to go get this book
I think all men and women the ability to be an asshole or a bitch. Just some people are more than others and some people have the ability to supress that part of them compared to others.
Well, I hope one of these days all the nice people get together and have a bunch of nice kids and repopulate the world.
Unfortunately I will probably be long dead before that will ever happen.
Hope all is well, take care.
i love the last statement :) thanks for sharing!
I think people just forget how to be normal human beings.
sucks that after people get hurt, they kinda turn on the next relationship they're in. they're has to be some sort of constructive healing rather than waht seems to be roughly patched up battle scarred temporary fixes. sometimes i wish i could open up therapy sessions for girls. not that i think that i have all the answers, but to have a support that atleast attempts to get people out of that "cycle of hate." in fact, i think guys get hurt just as often as girls, and often times they hurt other girls because they've been hurt before too. iono, in my opinion, there just needs to be more genuine love and acceptance and constructive healing, or it's just nasty cyclical misery.
I just dropped by the bookstore earlier and saw this. Thought it would be a good read. Your entry is better though hehe. Thanks for the compliment for us girls! :)
*Sigh* I haven't visited you for quite a long time. Been busy! Anyway, hope you're well. :)
hope u had a happy new year =)